And do not call anyone on earth ‘father,’ for you have one Father, and he is in heaven. Matthew 23:9
I have no problem with recognizing the need for spiritual authority and I have found that in this “fatherless” generation, people are in deperate need of true fathers in their lives. Why would Jesus then say not to call anyone father, or teacher, or master? If you look at the entire passage of Matthew 23, you will see that he is adressing people who call themselves teacher, and master and father, but have no desire to lead people into the path of righteousness. The reason is that one can not lead down a path that they will not walk. Many times people set out a list of rules, or a check list, to simplify “discipleship”, and by doing so create religion. They set out a list to make it easier for people to follow them, or perhaps to make it easier to corral people into their specific way of thinking. It becomes easy for leaders to prefer uniformity over individuality because it is much easier to direct people who all think and act the same. The problem is that everyone is different. God made us different because He is so good. He made us free so that we can rule from the dominion of heaven with the authority of joint heirs. What true fathers do is walk with their children. True fathers come along side and encourage their kids every step of the way. True fathers constantly find ways to set their children up to recieve and multiply their inheritance. The Greek word παράκλητος, paráklētos, “one who consoles, one who intercedes on our behalf, a comforter or an advocate”, is the word used in John 14:16 when Jesus said he would send another couselor… Holy Spirit. I believe that as many of us look to find spiritual parents, we must make sure that they are a person who has the great counselor Holy Ghost along side of them. Not that they run flawlessly, but that they are commited to the journey. Amazing parents are those who are committed to process, even if it is messy, even if they risk being hurt along the journey. In context, Jesus was not saying that no one should ever be called father, what he was saying was that no one should ask to be called father unless they are willing to live the selfless existence of a parent, toward their spiritual children. How I long to love my biological and spiritual children in a selfless fashion. How I long to acrue a vast treasure of spiritual depth, and mentor those around me to not only inherit but to create spiritual wealth that will increase from generation to generation. How i wish to be mentored and mentor by LOVE.